Texas prosecutor and child advocate dies in apparent Suicide

Benavides’ name became widely known in 2010 when her then-husband, Brent Barry, initiated divorce proceedings, alleging an “emotional affair” between Benavides and Parker, who played for the San Antonio Spurs at the time. Parker and actress Eva Longoria divorced in 2011; Longoria later stated she found numerous messages between Parker and Benavides.

From January 2023 until August 2026, Benavides served as an assistant district attorney in the 38th Judicial District, focusing on anti-gang and border prosecutions. She had recently resigned from the position and was reportedly seeking new employment.

Beyond her legal career, Benavides was involved in child welfare initiatives. She served as president and CEO of the Youth Center of Texas from 2020 to 2022, an organization dedicated to assisting child sex-trafficking victims. Yolanda Valenzuela of Kym’s Angels Foundation also recognized Benavides’ contributions to the Bexar County Child Welfare Board, where she participated in adoption ceremonies and fundraising events.

Her husband, Pablo “Paul” Benavides, resides in San Antonio and owns the property where she was found. Christina Mitchell, the 38th District District Attorney, expressed sorrow over Benavides’ passing, describing her as a source of “joy, laughter, and mirth” within the office.

If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 or text Crisis Text Line at 741741.